Have you ever lost something and felt that emptiness? Like something had been taken from you, removed from you or your life. There was some type of what I call 'subtraction'. You don't have to have been a Maths genius to understand what that means. But what if I told you, you have to subtract sometimes to add. Well in Maths that simply does make sense 2-1 does not give you 3 or 81 it gives you 1. So how does that make sense in life. It simply depends on how you look at something or the amount of reflection you give to a given situation. I am NOT discrediting in anyway your pain in a given situation. A bereavement, a missed opportunity, the ending of a marriage or relationship. I am not implying that this pain was somehow good or worthwhile. Life can be unfair, but within in some special things can happen. This concept is not absolute. Let me give you an example and this will be a vivid reminder to you. I sat with a friend and discussed the ending of a long term relationsh...